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phineasfrogg

Anonymous asked:

i understood "neuroatypical" to be an umbrella term used for anyone whose brain is functioning differently than a typical brain. i asked an autistic person before using it because i wasn't sure and was told that it applied to my particular mental illness. is there a divide on this topic?

disability-positivity answered:

The words neurotypical and neuroatypical originated within the autistic community to mean non-autistic and autistic, respectively.

This has changed over time, as allistic people have adopted the term, and so now neuroatypical refers to anyone with an atypical neurological configuration, so I agree it’s fine for you to use it!

(For example, here’s a list of neurological disorders — anyone with any of those on this list could identify as neuroatypical.)

The term neurodivergent was then coined in it’s place to refer to people specifically with developmental disabilities.

(Developmental disabilities include things like Autism Spectrum Disorder, ADHD, Cerebral Palsy, intellectual disabilities, learning disabilities, etc. Research is showing that schizophrenia, schizophrenia spectrum disorders and OCD may be developmental disabilities as well, so I feel that they should be included under this term, too.)

However, neuroatypical people are now trying to claim they have a place in the word neurodivergent and saying neurodivergent and neuroatypical are synonymous. They aren’t.

Some people use them interchangeably because neuroatypical and neurotypical can be confusing for people with certain disabilities to tell apart, and that’s fine!, but it doesn’t change the meaning of the word in all contexts.

Neurodivergent, in it’s original context, is actually really important as there are issues that affect people with developmental disabilities that do not affect people with mental illnesses and it’s necessary to have a functional word to help us talk about those things.

I hope that helps clear things up! c:

- Cap

TL; DR:

  • Neuroatypical can be used by anyone with atypical neurology, i.e a developmental or mental disability.
  • Neurodivergent is sometimes used synonymously with neuroatypical but actually refers only to those with developmental disabilities.
  • Allistic refers to those who are non-autistic.
  • Neurotypical refers to someone who falls within the range of typical neurology and is NOT synonymous with allistic.

(Please keep in mind that I am not trying to put mentally ill and developmentally disabled people against each other or say that mental illnesses are less important or anything of that nature. I am both mentally ill and developmentally disabled myself.)

madeofpatterns

Cosigned. That doesn’t make any sense. “Person with a developmental disability” or “developmentally disabled” are already perfectly good words for that.

(I don’t think that everything in the DSM ought to be described as neurodivergence, but that’s because some of what’s in the DSM is assorted stigmatized attributes that have little to do with neurology)

allismyells

Well mentally ill and person with a mental illness are also already good  words as well…so why do you need more for that?

Why should mentally ill people be allowed to co-opt two different words that were not made with them in mind? Why not make their own, instead of taking them from another marginalized group???

chavisory

Because they’re not “taking” them.

If something that usually gets called a “mental illness” is neurologically-mediated, then it IS a neuroatypicality.

I cannot tell someone who is bipolar, or schizophrenic, or depression-prone, that they can’t say they are neuroatypical, when they are neuroatypical.

It is a word that is accurate to their conditions.  Those things have neurological causes and neurological effects.  They are not co-opting anything, just because autistic people came up with the word.

“Neuroatypical” did not originally mean autistic.  It just, actually, didn’t.

Yes, neuroatypical and neurodivergent are synonyms.  Neurodivergent is easier to read and visually distinguish in written form, so it’s more commonly preferred.  But they are effective synonyms.

cottagecoreunderscore

This is very wrong actually. Neuroatypical does not mean “autistic” and neurotypical does not mean “not autistic.” There are countless people who aren’t neurotypical and also aren’t autistic. I am one of them. Autism is a neurodivergent condition, and is just one of many that exist. People with OCD bipolar, ADHD and PTSD (etc) also exist. Neuroatypical condtions are mental illnesses, like depression or eating disorders. They are not neurotypical, but differ in a lot of ways from neurodivergent conditions, so no, they are not synonyms. We need to stay away from the myth that everyone in the world is either autistic or completely neurotypical. It causes actual harm to people like me who also need to access support.

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Anonymous asked:

i dont know if youre ever on here but i love your yt edits (esp misfits) if you ever had time or wanted to i think the song the kids arent alright (by fob!) would be a great song for the misfits gang! no one has done a fanvid with that song yet and id love to see one

If you’d love to see one you can always make one!

indiestripper
parisianqueen

During the most poor and homeless period of my life, I had a lot of people get angry with me because I spent $25 on Bath and Body Works candles during a sale. They couldn’t comprehend why the hell I would do that when I had been fighting for months to try and get us on our feet, afford food, and have an apartment to live in.

Those candles were placed beside wherever I slept that night. In the morning, I would move them and set them wherever I’d have to hang out. At one point I carried one around in my purse - one of those big honking 3-wick candles. I never lit them, but I’d open them and smell them a lot.

I credit that purchase with a lot of my drive that got me to where I am today. I had been working tirelessly, 15+ hour days with barely any reward, constantly on the phone or trying to deal with organizations and associations to “get help at”. It’d gone on for almost a year by the end of it, and I was so burnt out, to the point that I would shake 24/7. But I could get a bit of relief from my 3-wick “upper middle class lifestyle” candles. They represented my future goals, my home I wanted to decorate, and how I would one day not be in this mess anymore.

When we moved into the apartment, and our financial status improved, I burned those candles every single day. When they were empty, I cleaned them out, stuck labels on them, and they became the starting point of my really cute organization system I had ALWAYS planned to have.

So whenever I hear about someone very poor getting themselves a treat - maybe it’s Starbucks, maybe it’s a home deco item, maybe it’s a video game… I don’t judge them. I get it. I get that you can’t go without anything for that long without it making you go crazy. You need to pull some joy, inspiration, and motivation from somewhere.

moralistically

poor people deserve things they want, too. it is unfair to expect poor people to only buy things they “need”.

enide-s-dear

My grandfather used to tell me: if you only have 20 kr left, you buy grocery for 10 kr and flowers for the other 10 kr because you need a reason to live as well.

korrasera

We are not machines and an unmet need is an unmet need.

taylorswift
taylorswift

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For years I asked, pleaded for a chance to own my work. Instead I was given an opportunity to sign back up to Big Machine Records and ‘earn’ one album back at a time, one for every new one I turned in. I walked away because I knew once I signed that contract, Scott Borchetta would sell the label, thereby selling me and my future. I had to make the excruciating choice to leave behind my past. Music I wrote on my bedroom floor and videos I dreamed up and paid for from the money I earned playing in bars, then clubs, then arenas, then stadiums. 

Some fun facts about today’s news: I learned about Scooter Braun’s purchase of my masters as it was announced to the world. All I could think about was the incessant, manipulative bullying I’ve received at his hands for years. 

Like when Kim Kardashian orchestrated an illegally recorded snippet of a phone call to be leaked and then Scooter got his two clients together to bully me online about it. (See photo) Or when his client, Kanye West, organized a revenge porn music video which strips my body naked. Now Scooter has stripped me of my life’s work, that I wasn’t given an opportunity to buy. Essentially, my musical legacy is about to lie in the hands of someone who tried to dismantle it.

This is my worst case scenario. This is what happens when you sign a deal at fifteen to someone for whom the term ‘loyalty’ is clearly just a contractual concept. And when that man says ‘Music has value’, he means its value is beholden to men who had no part in creating it. 

When I left my masters in Scott’s hands, I made peace with the fact that eventually he would sell them. Never in my worst nightmares did I imagine the buyer would be Scooter. Any time Scott Borchetta has heard the words ‘Scooter Braun’ escape my lips, it was when I was either crying or trying not to. He knew what he was doing; they both did. Controlling a woman who didn’t want to be associated with them. In perpetuity. That means forever. 

Thankfully, I am now signed to a label that believes I should own anything I create. Thankfully, I left my past in Scott’s hands and not my future. And hopefully, young artists or kids with musical dreams will read this and learn about how to better protect themselves in a negotiation. You deserve to own the art you make.

I will always be proud of my past work. But for a healthier option, Lover will be out August 23. 


Sad and grossed out,

💔

Taylor